About Maéni HTTB DeBankji

Maéni HTTB DeBanKondji

Who I am

I was that woman who carried everything: family, marriage, children, the expectations of others… in silence. I experienced heartbreak, humiliation, injustice, debt, dormitories, forced solitude. But I also experienced something greater: *restoration.*

One morning in June 2024, in a mixed dormitory in Pontault-Combault, I received a clear inner message:


*“Get up, restore your family, and set an example.”*


From that day forward, my dormitory became a sanctuary, my story became a message, and my brokenness became a mission.

My way of providing support

I am not a “perfect coach” who has achieved everything. I am a woman on a journey, who has decided to transform her life into a laboratory of healing and truth.

My approach is based on:


– *The truth*: we name things, without masks or makeup.

– *Gentleness*: we move forward at your pace, without violence.

– *Faith and respect for everyone*: whether you are Christian, Muslim, a believer in your own way or searching, you are welcome.

– *Practice*: exercises, questions, role-playing, not just fine speeches.

Ma mission

 My mission in 3 words: Restore, Align, Inspire

I firmly believe that:

  •  No past is irretrievable;
  •  No woman, no man should have to bear alone what they are going through;
  •  Forgiveness is not a weakness, but a strength;
  • Faith, lucidity, and self-work can change an entire lineage.

My mission is to support:

  1.  women who rise again after the chaos;
  2.  men who want to change but don't know where to start;
  3.  fractured families who want to rebuild differently;
  4. weary souls who want to find peace.

I am not a “perfect coach” who has achieved everything. I am a woman on a journey, who has decided to transform her life into a laboratory of healing and truth.

Maéni HTTB DeBankji Author. Consultant.

  • My approach is based on:

    *The truth*: we name things, without masks or makeup.

    – *Gentleness*: we move forward at your pace, without violence.
    – *Faith and respect for everyone*: whether you are Christian, Muslim, a believer in your own way or searching, you are welcome.
    *The practice* exercises, questions, role-playing, not just fine speeches.


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